Well we are nearly one week into the New Year and I keep reflecting on the things that I've never done before. From celebrating Christmas in a very non-traditional way to hosting events that I've never done before I realized the 3 things that I learned from this new way are:
1) You do not have to justify your why, but you better know it
2) People will look at you funny or "how dare you" when you are non-traditional
3) If you come from a position of "I'm doing this again" the perfectionist in you becomes a thing of the past naturally and you get to focus on what can I do to make it better next time.
One of the key components for not receiving the blessings that we felt were in our promises or desires is because we tend do what everyone else is doing just to fit in. So when you do not receive the same results and think life isn't fair because it worked for her and not you then it was a simply a matter of you just need to tweak your action a tiny bit more...we are all unique and that's what makes us so special. It is okay to want different things than everybody else and it is okay to have a day or a job that looks unique to you.
Stop letting what you are supposed to do be the go-to method for making decisions. What if your change of pace is just what leads to be of the best service to others? What if your choices led you and your family to the most amazing time celebrating Jesus and you are leading new traditions?
So what if people look at you funny or think you're unbelievable...you do you. Happy 2019!!!
StressLess & Blessings
Founder/Stress Management Life Coach
#stresslesssecrets La Palmera Spa
NIcky Stansbury is the Founder of La Palmera Spa and StressLessSecrets. She is passionate about inspiring others to respond instead of reacting to life's plot twists.